Congratulations! You've decided to try swinging. So where do you go, how do you meet and what exactly are you looking for? If you are a swinger in Pensacola, Florida, do you want to go to a local club in Pensacola, or do you want to get out of town for the sake of discretion? If you are an out of state swinger, do you want to come to Florida and meet Pensacola swingers or would you prefer Panama City? Once you get here, what if there are no swingers clubs having a party when you get here? That would not be cool! Also, what if you don't know anyone there? Many times, people will come out of a swingers club complaining that it is too 'cliqueish.' The reality is that the club isn't dominated by cliques at all - people just naturally talk to people they already know. When you go into a new club, you have to go through the process of meeting people over the course of several parties. This takes time. If you are visiting Pensacola or Miami on a vacation, you may not have several weeks to get to know the swingers at the local swingers clubs.
The answer is to join a membership site. There are general sites and niche sites. Only you can determine which is best for you. One general rule of thumb: You get what you pay for. If you want to rely on free memberships, you are doomed to fail. Free memberships always come with so many restrictions that they are useless for meeting people. So, if you want to meet real, live, honest to goodness real swingers in Pensacola or Timbuktu, you are going to have to pay for a membership.
Feel free to use free memberships to learn about a sites popularity and features. But when you are ready to meet real people, be prepared to pay a reasonable fee to do so. Swingers in the Pensacola - Panama City region prefer SwingLifeStyle.com over every other site we have ever taken a poll on... for five (5) years in a row. The reason appears to be due to the large number of swingers in Pensacola - Panama City region who already use the site. There are several other sites to choose from, and there seems to be a definite increase in niche site popularity, too.
Perhaps the most striking change is the interest in both "mature" swingers and "wife" sites. When we started Florida Social, these niches really didn't even exist. Back then, it seemed as if everyone wanted a single female or, if they couldn't find one, they would reluctantly accept a couple. Today, single men have no problem finding large numbers of couples - many who are over 30 - who are into wife banging threesomes.
Today, swingers in Pensacola to Miami can find a niche and a swingers club that meets their particular interest.