As a swinger, you need to understand that communication is the key, and is important for you relationship, and even more when you decided to get into a swinging lifestyle, you need to talk with your partner about evrything you want and you did, that gives the other part relax feel about no sentimental attachment to someone different, When most people decide to open up their relationship, it’s tempting to believe that jealousy is the only emotion to look out for, because it’s the cornerstone of any open relationship problems, right?
Sometimes you may feel that the non-monogamy life is wrong or maybe you don’t want it all the time, and that’s ok, is nothing wrong with that, Maybe you don’t quite know what it is, a twinge of what could feel like jealousy, or guilt, or envy, or even outright shock. And these little twinges often don’t even add up to full of feelings. The reason for this is that we KNOW which feeling buttons to press in a monogamous relationship when your partner kisses, fondles and sucks someone else. It’s ingrained into our subconscious.
So why all this talk about micromotions, and things we don’t understand. Because it’s VERY IMPORTANT that you not dismiss these feelings. As you experience opening your relationship up, make sure you talk about all these little emotional fluctuations with your partner, in that way both cand cuddle and fix it, and don’t leave the swinging lifestyle, It’ll keep you sane, likely confirm that your partner is feeling them as well, and will let you identify and process the emotions.
Communicate today, communicate tomorrow, communicate forever. Excessively. Be annoying about it at the beginning, so you can make it over the first great hump into swinging and non-monogamy, altering your worldview.
this will continue with more keys.
